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37 intimate questions for deep convos

You want to find out more about your partner? What are his/her biggest weaknesses in the relationship? What are the biggest turn-offs? Deepen the relationship with your partner with these 37 intimate questions!

You can take turns asking each other the intimate questions. Start with the first question, then it is your partner's turn to ask the next question. Here we go:

  1. If you could choose anyone in the world, who would you invite to dinner?
  2. What if you lived to be 90 years old and could keep either the body or mind you had when you were 30 for the rest of your life? What would you choose?
  3. Your house, containing everything you own, is on fire. After getting your family and pets to safety, you still have time to save one thing from the flames. What should that be and why?
  4. What celebrity would you not push off the edge of the bed?
  5. Do you find the idea of a threesom interesting?
  6. If so: Would you prefer it with two women or two men?
  7. What was your worst date and why?
  8. Where do you like to have sex?
  9. What was the worst rejection you've ever received?
  10. What do you think of open relationships?
  11. Have you ever sent nude pictures?
  12. What is your biggest turn-off in bed?
  13. How many one night stands have you had?
  14. Can you separate sex and feelings?
  15. Have you ever been ghosted?
  16. Have you ever ghosted someone?
  17. Have you ever been exploited by someone?
  18. Can you remember everyone you've had sex with?
  19. How many times a week do you watch porn?
  20. What is your favorite position in bed?
  21. Have you ever had phone sex?
  22. What is the most impressive quality you have?
  23. What is one of the most embarrassing moments in your life?
  24. Have you ever paid for sex?
  25. Have you ever skipped using a condom because you were overwhelmed with desire?
  26. What was the most embarrassing thing that happened to you during sex?
  27. Do you remember every person you've kissed?
  28. How often do you talk to your friends about your sex life?
  29. Do you have sexual fantasies that you haven't talked to your previous partner about?
  30. What is your most treasured memory?
  31. What 3 things do we have in common?
  32. Sex on a first date: yes or no?
  33. What's the most unusual place you've had sex?
  34. Are you supposed to laugh at mishaps in bed?
  35. Have you ever had sex with someone from the same sex?
  36. How long was your longest sex?
  37. What did you think when you first saw me?
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Meet the Author

Heike Kraft

Far too often, couples break up not because they don't fit together, but because they don't have the right tools to resolve their conflicts. As the founder of LoveLane, I want to help couples love more consciously and appreciate each other more. In recent years I have built a wide variety of digital products for companies, including a self-coaching app. Through my training as an integral coach and from personal experience, interpersonal relationships have become even more important to me. I'm so excited to be able to bring these two areas of experience together at LoveLane.