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Showing Love: How you can show your love!

It is a science to give love to those who truly deserve it. It requires a lot of practice. Different people respond to love in different ways.

Some like to hear words, others need loving actions, and some respond positively to gestures. Whether it's a spouse or partner, we will show you how you can show your love to your beloved!


Show your love through words

Give compliments to your partner

We often think that our friends and family know how much we appreciate and like them. In reality, that is not always the case. You should give someone a compliment when you want to show your gratitude:

You should start with something simple like "I appreciate you very much" or "I am glad that you exist." This way you can be sure.

A compliment about someone's appearance or character is appreciated by both men and women. "You are so beautiful/handsome," "You have a great personality" can be strong compliments. Positive things like "You are so kind/intelligent."

But be honest. Don't succumb to the urge to praise someone just so they feel good. If you don't like your partner's cooking skills, don't lie (but thank them for the effort they made). Compliments are meaningless if they are not sincere. Usually, this is also understood.

Encourage your partner

Love also means wanting your partner to mature and encouraging them. Remember to show affection at the right time. Encourage your partner to continue to develop and pursue what makes them happy.

You can also help a loved one by boosting their self-confidence. Saying "You can do it!" or "I am always here for you." encourages your partner and is a sign of love.

Please ask your partner for advice

Asking someone for advice shows that you respect and trust them. This gives your partner a good feeling, strengthens their self-esteem, and brings you closer together. Whether it's about where to find the best pizza or deeper advice when you've had a fight with a friend.

Show gratitude to your partner

It's usually difficult to appreciate your partner as much as you did at the beginning of your relationship. Think about how long you've been in a relationship. Of course, your partner will be happy if you thank them and they will recognize how important their work is.

When you say thank you, be as specific as possible, for example, "Thank you for doing the dishes" or "Thank you for taking the time to help me."

Think for a moment about your partner. Undoubtedly, there are some things that your partner has done for you that you haven't even noticed. Did they pick you up from work? Did they clear the dishes or do the laundry?

This is also a way for your partner to show their love. Thank them by saying "thank you."

Share your secrets

To express how much you like someone more than anyone else, tell them how you feel. This is not always about your dirty laundry. You show your partner that you trust them when you open up to them.

Of course, you should only trust someone if you feel comfortable doing so. If you are not ready for this step yet, you should take your time.

Show your love through your daily behavior

Be a good listener for your partner

This can also be a way of showing love. Show your love for your partner without words by looking into their eyes and noticing their body language. Put your phone away, turn to your partner, and focus on their words. When was the last time someone paid you so much attention that you appreciated it? It's a rare and wonderful feeling.

When you talk to your partner, try to be a good listener. Give them your full attention. Set aside anything you're doing on your phone or reading. Listen and show your love through your responses by being attentive and showing interest. If you don't know what to say, give them a hug instead.

Try to always be a caring listener, even if there's no special reason to. When your friend comes home, ask them how their day was. Give them your undivided attention.

Be loving to your partner

Touch is important for us humans. To feel safe, we need to believe that we are valued by others. Touch connects us in a way that nothing else can. It is uncomplicated and easy. You can express your affection not only through touch, but also improve your relationship in this way.

It is worth noting that "touch" has a much broader meaning than just intimate or sexual contact. A pat on the back, a handshake, and a hug all have the same effect. Touch goes beyond physical boundaries and shows that you care about someone who is important to you and who you feel close to.

Share your life with your partner

Sharing things with each other makes relationships stronger. Whether it's a dresser, a unique glass for a certain occasion, or even school supplies, giving your loved one the feeling of being a real part of your life shows them how much they mean to you.

Introducing your partner to your friends and family is another way to show your love. Everyone wants to meet the closest friends, partners, or beloved siblings. Giving the person the feeling of being something special is important.

Create inside jokes and beautiful memories

In relationships, it's about the little things we do that no one else understands. To show how important these moments are to you, you should highlight them.

How can you achieve this? Create a playlist of music that you both listen to, or design a personalized mug with a photo from a trip to the beach. Give your loved one something that reminds them of you. This is also an opportunity to show how grateful you are for them. This type of action doesn't have to be big. It just lets your partner know that you're listening to them.

Show your love through special gestures

Give gifts to your partner

Some people love to receive gifts. For these people, it's not about the objects themselves, but the act of giving as an outward sign of affection. It's the thought that counts. Give small gifts for birthdays, anniversaries, or other occasions. Even a small surprise gift now and then is nice. The most unforgettable gifts are often the ones we didn't expect.

When you give a gift to your partner, it's only natural that you want to express your affection. Regardless of the size or shape of the gift, it sends the message, "I'm thinking of you." The receiver interprets it as an expression of love and appreciation.

Do something good as a sign of your love

Pay for the bill at a restaurant or café when going out with your loved one. Offer to help with a difficult task, such as carrying or cleaning out the garage.

The most sincere gifts of love are those for which you have to make an effort. That's why we call them "good deeds". This way, you show your partner that they are more important to you than your personal pleasure.

Spend time with your partner

Some people feel most appreciated when they can spend time with friends, family, and their partner instead of receiving gifts. The most important thing is that you actually do something together and not just be in the same room. Give your loved one your full attention. Plan an activity like a dance class or an opera visit, ice skating.

You can watch a movie together or discuss the news over a cup of coffee. You can also play a board game.

When you work with a loved one to organize something, you show that they are an important part of your life. You can do these things alone, but you want them to be there.

Show your love through cooking

Many people express their love through food. Cooking and eating with others is another way to build a strong relationship and show care. Invite your partner to a meal or drinks, dessert, and appetizers. They will see how much you care for them.

Be attentive

Remember to come up with your own ways to express affection. The more personal and appropriate you make it, the more genuine and successful it will be. Listening is an important trait to show love. It helps you learn more about your partner, such as what they like and what they wish for. With this information, you can surprise your partner with something unique.


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Meet the Author

Heike Kraft

Too often couples break up not because they're not a good match, but because they don't have the right "tools" to solve their conflicts. As the founder of LoveLane, I want to help couples love more consciously and appreciate each other more. Over the past few years, I have built various digital products for businesses, including a self-coaching app. Through my training as an integral coach and personal experiences, interpersonal relationships have become even more central to me. I'm excited to be able to bring these two areas of expertise together at LoveLane.